People think the best revenge is your paper—your money, your financial wins, the feeling of dominating someone. It isn’t. The best revenge is your peace: a loving partner, a child who feels safe with you, real friendships, and a life no longer built around someone else’s chaos. This post explores how high‑conflict abusers grift, play the victim, and drain others—and how your true power is in staying gracious, setting firm boundaries, and building a life they can’t touch or co